Situations

There are three kinds of situations in this life. 
Good, Bad and the ones which can not be categorized. 
To each of these situations; there are humans involved backstage. Each human has a role. 

In good situations, the good characters triumph resulting in the situation being good. It is often their just decisions; their crisp thinking and ability to stay rational that the justice prevails. What should happen, happens. 

When we go through good situations in life, we cherish them. We feel them. We store them in our minds. We play their reruns countless times. Rerunning, reliving every single second of it again and again. 

In bad situations, the bad characters take the charge; resulting in the situation often being bad. Their irrational decisions; their lack of ability and courage to state the truth  just drowns everyone aboard, Lies, injustice and distorted versions of reality prevail in these situations.

We hate such situations. We dislike them. We detest them. We often want to avoid them. We even manage to live in denial for a long period of time failing to gather the courage needed to face these situations. But then, ultimately; time makes us realize. It makes us go through these situations. No.Matter.What. 

And then, we have situations we are unable to categorize. We are unsure if they are good or bad. We hunt for clues to pass our judgement and put them in one of the two kinds of situations. But we fail. With growing impatience, we desperately search for adjectives to label these situations. 

And this, third type of situation is the very situation which teaches us the most. That invincible urge to judge and react accordingly takes us by surprise because we are unable to. 

In our urge to define these situations, we often lose the most in this battlefield. Unable to combat any further, we give up. We grow tired and a serene sense of painful silence takes us over. A contradictory sense of burdened nothingness takes us over. And is it indeed in those moments of burdened devoid that the clouds of this situation subside. They somehow, leave us more acceptable. More mature. More understanding to the people, to the world and to our own selves.

In this very submission in the third situation, we learn the importance of silence, the power of leap of faith. Ultimately, it leads us to the knowledge of right and wrong. And finally, only these uncategorised situations teach us the worth of good and bad situations alike.

We don't any more have reruns of beautiful good situations or frustrated victimized bad situations; we truly grow above them. We truly start combating all the situations with the armour of patience and wisdom. Wisdom indescribable in words. Patience, only understood by those who have experienced the nameless situations.